Playing God

My mother was a perfectionist. I remember taking my coloring book to her to show her my latest work. She said, “Oh, honey, that’s very good! I like the colors you used. And, if you had stayed inside line right there,” (pointing) “it would have been just perfect.”.

The funny part was, I was never disappointed. After all, she really liked what I had done. So I’d go color another picture – being very careful to make it, …“perfect”.

I became a Scout. Three years a Cub Scout. Three more as a Boy Scout. And, three more as an Explorer Scout. By the way, the Boy Scout motto is, “Be Prepared”. That was 9-years of “preparation”!

Later in life, I became an Air Force pilot. An occupation that left little room for mistakes and/or failures to plan. (A significant number of military aircraft are very unforgiving of mistakes!)

I became an Emergency War Order Planning Officer. We wrote the plans to implement the missions our Wing was assigned to fly if we went to (nuclear) war. We also wrote plans for deployments and emergency movements. After writing the plans, we would pour over our work doing “what-ifs”. Every sortie had a mission – and, a priority. “What if, sortie 3 doesn’t get started? Which sortie do we divert to take it’s place? What’s the ripple effect from that decision?” On, and on, and, …on.

I tell you this so you can see how I became something of a perfectionist, and a person who is always looking for the “potential point of failure, etc)”. I also want to share with you that this will affect your personal life; and more importantly, your walk with Christ

I can drive my wife to distraction with questions and what-ifs. She sometimes accuses me of negativity. I take umbrage, and tell her I just, “…want to be ready in case things go cross-wise”. She informs me our marriage is going to go cross-wise if I don’t let up. (But, she smiles when she says it.)

So here I am, constantly looking for potential problems or flaws in my plans: and the plans of others – when they involve my family or me . When I find flaws (or even just potential flaws) I start working to assure that I have the answers, solutions, explanations or whatever else may be required, instantly ready to be applied, when/if needed.

And that kind of thinking, folks, is bogus and sinful on many levels. It is also dangerous thinking. It gives Satan a foothold in my life – which I want to avoid like the plague. It’s a source of stress – which I don’t need. Sometimes it builds ego – which I don’t need. It causes friction within my marriage, and in relationships with family and friends – which, I certainly don’t need, or intend. But, most importantly, it is damaging to my relationship with Christ.

Have you ever thought about this? From the beginning of our life here on earth, (this applies to everyone), God knows our entire story. Everything! Nothing is hidden! Why is this important? Because regardless of everything else, God already has, or is going to offer you both adoption and eternal life. “God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure.” [Eph 1:5, NLT]

I must tell you that it is not an open ended offer. It is good only until Christ returns to earth – or, we reach our departure date and time. Whichever happens, we will be “sifted”. Christians will join the family in Heaven. Non Christians won’t.*

So God, who is omniscient – meaning: having infinite awareness, understanding and insight; and, omnipotent – meaning: having unlimited power, force and authority, …actually made a considered choice to include me if I would subjugate my freewill, and trust in Jesus. I did!

In all honesty I’m telling you, I have a problem – of sorts. I find myself trying to play god! Not only that, I’m trying to play god while God knows, and, I should know, all that talk about trying to be perfect and having all the correct answers is so much, …fertilizer. Yet I turn my back on him to pursue my own plans. Now, …How. Dumb. Is. That?!

Then why did I say, “a problem – of sorts”? Because, I really do know exactly how to fix this Problem.

My planning for solutions to the unexpected – in an unknown future, is a oxymoron. It is also worry, arrogance, and foolishness! It is also Satan using me to take a jab at God. And, it’s time to repent; and, ask Jesus for forgiveness. It’s not that I’ve lost my salvation. I haven’t. But, I am sinning, and I need to stop. And to stop I need help. Supernatural help. And I need to apologize to my best friend.

Might there be consequences from the plans I’ve already set in motion? Absolutely! I’ll get what I’ve earned. And, both the good (if any) and bad consequences (much more likely) will be “good”. Good, like when even a blind pig occasionally finds an acorn. And, the “unfavorable consequences” will be the lessons I need to internalize so that I don’t keep repeating my stupidity. I know God will help me. He chose me; and adopted me. He not only has a plan for my life; but, tells me time and again that He will never forget nor forsake me; that He has my back; and, wants only the best outcomes for me. He is slowly but surely perfecting me. But, because I live on planet earth, total perfection won’t occur during my lifetime. There is nothing perfect on earth, …yet.


Father, (Abba),

I can’t even begin to fathom your love for me. But, I do understand it well enough to know that when I come to you, broken and contrite, you never fail to set with me, brush away my tears, listen to my pleadings, and hug me close. Oh, how I thank you for those times.

Lord, you have blessed me greatly — far beyond my dreams. Yet I some- times get impatient or discouraged when dreams, plans, or prayers, seem to have gone astray. At these times, will you please remind me of all the times you have answered, …and all the times I have not even noticed or acknowledged your provision, …and it’s perfection.

Lord, please continue teaching me to rely on your love and grace. Forgive my egotism and conceit. Please help me to restore the relationships my pride and conceit have damaged. Show me the truth of your words; and make my testimony effective when talking with others in their times of need.

Lord I know you are still on the job and in control. Your provision has never failed me. I will praise your name forever. Amen.


* The straight truth is: 1. God loves his creation of man (and woman) more than any other. 2. When Adam and Eve sinned (by doing the only thing God told them not to do), they (not only) brought sin, separation from God and eventual death, into their own selves (body and soul), they also introduced it to the entire planet and all future generations. 3. God is Holy and cannot abide sin—in any form or amount. 4. But God is also love, …and grace. And so, from his great love and grace, God came up with a plan that could save mankind from eternal death. 5. For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. [Jn. 3:16, NLT]

All we need do is: accept Jesus Christ as the Son of God. The only one who can forgive and cleanse our sins when we repent of them and ask for forgiveness. When we do that, we become Christians. The Holy Spirit moves into us; and will reside in us while we live our lives on earth. And then, let’s not forget that we will have a perfected body and soul while living an eternal life in the presence of God.

If you don’t take that simple step; or, you intend to – but just don’t get it done; or, you go through the motions thinking you can “fake it” and continue living your previous “good times” life; …PEASE believe me! You are doomed to eternity in Hell. Period!** A place were there is NO good thing. Not one!

Christ is offering you a new life. A “do over” of immense proportion. Jesus will be your guide. You won’t become magically perfect. But you will change. And God promises you will change far beyond your expectations; if, you give him the reins.

** God is Just. Children, too young to understand God’s plan, will not go to Hell. There will be children in heaven.

The bible tells us that we are born with the ability to know and search for God. As we find new cultures on earth, we have never found even one that did not have a god or gods; and, codes of “right” and “wrong”. The Bible also tells us in the Old Testament – before God sent Jesus to earth (as the only possible sacrifice for our sins) many people “found favor” with God.

So, I believe those who have never had the “Good News” of the New Testament explained to them will still be judged by God. And, those in whom He “finds favor” will go to heaven. But only God knows those “requirements”. I believe the great “I AM” will make “perfectly correct decisions”.



Forgiveness and Grace

Or is it the other way around? Does it really make a difference? I’m not totally assured one way or the other. I know they are certainly intertwined in many cases. I guess I’d have to ask: can you have forgiveness without grace? Or, can you have grace without forgiveness?

I think we should take a good look at the meaning of both words from the source of all truth, The Bible.

Forgiveness: To acquit of sins. To give up resentment of or claim to extracting neither punishment or redress. To forgive implies that one gives up all claim to requital and to resentment or vengeful feelings.*

Grace: God’s free and unmerited favor toward sinful humanity. Unmerited favor given to another.*

* In each of the above definitions the first sentence came from the New Living Translation of the Holy Bible. Following sentences were paraphrased from Miriam Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, 11th Edition.

After looking at the definitions I found that I needed yet another definition. I needed the definition of “unmerited.” Not finding “unmerited” in either Reference book, I looked for “merit” and found it in the dictionary (only).

Merit: (Paraphrasing again): merit is something to be earned. In fact, while it can be considered as reward or punishment, it is usually applied in a positive way, such as: earning reward, honor, opportunity and esteem.

How many times I’ve heard someone say: “If he/she would just apologize (or give me a simple, ‘I’m sorry’, I could/would forgive him/her”. Or, “They’ve crossed the line one too many times! I will never forgive them.” Or, … well, I think you get the idea. And, I hope you now understand that “forgiveness” can only be offered in an unmerited manner. Forgiveness has no “if only they would do this or that…or any other attached strings or, fine print. You either forgive or you don’t—right where they are (right now), and/or whatever condition they are in (right now). Yes: it’s an either/or situation.

Don’t panic. I cannot think of anything greater than our triune God’s grace, except God, himself. Grace and forgiveness are blessings we receive from God. Out of God’s grace, He sent his son Jesus to an undeserved and incredibly painful death on a cross—as a sacrifice for our sin. But, that wasn’t the end of it. Jesus then carried that sin burden to Hell, …where the real price for past (and our continuing) sins was extracted. Make no mistake, God and his son Jesus, paid an unimaginable price for the forgiveness of your sins—and mine, as well. And, when that stone rolled away and Jesus Christ stepped out of that tomb—He handed us our free pass into Heaven.

In light of what Jesus willingly did for us, how can any Christian say, “I cannot forgive that person.” Grudges not only eat at our insides they feed Satan and his demons. We must stop saying, “I won’t!” Saying, “I can’t!” is more truthful, but it is still just an excuse. We will lose this battle if we charge into it alone. Remember, we are fighting supernatural beings.

Think about the size of the sin load Jesus carried to the cross to cancel your sin burden—and, it’s still working for you. Surely you can pass some of that along. And, if you’re still not sure; you NEED to read this…

Jesus is speaking… 14If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly father will forgive you. 15But if you refuse to forgive others, your father will not forgive your sins. [Matthew 6: 14-15, NLT]

There are at least four other places in the New Testament (that I know of) that say the same thing. See: Mk 11:25, Luke 6:37, 11:4 and 17:3.

I know this will cause many people serious concernas it should. There is only one place to take that concern. Call: JESUS. He won’t put you on hold; and He is, I firmly believe, the only one that can understand exactly where you are, and why. Pour your heart out to Him. Out of His grace He can fix every break and bruise. And when the two of you are done with the victorious battle against Satan, He will have another priceless blessing for you—His Peace.

Oh, …Get Ready!

In Christian love,


Who Am I?

Thanks for asking.

The simplest answer is, “I am a unique creation of Yaweh.” And, I’d like to add, “So are you!

I hope that doesn’t offend you; but if it does, I’m afraid you’re going to have to live with it. You can choose to ignore it, …but you can’t change it. And ignoring it isn’t going to work to your advantage in the long run.

You see, Yaweh is the one true God of all creation—the God of the Jews and Christians. Yaweh is the creator of the universe—and, every thing in it. Most importantly for this discussion, He created every human as a unique individual.

Have you ever really thought about just how unique you are? On the molecular level, consider your DNA. That alone distinguishes you from the vast majority of all humans wandering the planet. Other distinguishing physical traits are your unique finger-prints and retinal-prints.

Then there is personality—a small percentage of which you inherited from your mother and father. If you grew-up with siblings, think about the common experiences you shared. Did they effect everyone in the exact same way? Do you remember the tiniest details the same way, or would you even agree on what was “tiny” and what was “major”? Then what lessons did you carry away from those “common” experiences? And, how have they affected your psyche and outlook on life?

What you inherited, and what you have learned by formal schooling, street smarts, relationships, how it was taught and by who, your personal observations, and even where you learned it—it all works toward assuring your uniqueness.

OK. We’re both unique. So what?

Well, hang onto that thought while I tell you a bit about your creator YHVH.

“YHVH” is the Hebrew word that translates as “LORD”. This name is found more often in the Old Testament than any other name for God (approximately 7,000 times). The title is also referred to as the “Tetragrammaton,” meaning the “The Four Letters”. YHVH comes from the Hebrew verb “to be” and is the name God revealed to Moses at the burning bush. “And God said to Moses, ‘I AM WHO I AM;’ and He said, ‘thus you shall say to the sons of Israel, I AM has sent me to you… this is My eternal name, and this is how I am to be recalled for all generations’”. [Exodus 3:13-14]. Therefore, YHVH declares God’s absolute being; and the source of everything—without beginning and without end.1

Now, let’s back-up for just a moment; and look at the very first name for God that we find in the Bible: “Elohim”. It is used about 2,300 times in the Old Testament and its first occurrence is in Genesis 1:1—the very first verse of the Bible. Elohim means, “all powerful”; and its form is, plural! Important? Oh, yeah! Originally a mystery, its meaning is slowly revealed throughout the rest of the Bible. While we worship the one true God, we (now) know our God is a triune God—God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit. It’s a bit difficult to wrap your mind around. It helps me to think of God as the spirit He is, with three different personas. Each of which can operate separately yet stay unified with the whole.

OK. I’m sorry if your head is spinning. I know it’s a lot for some of you to take in. Here is a quick summary of the critical points:

Our God has many names and each name tells us more about Him. The two names we have just talked about, tell us a great deal about God; starting with—our God is not a created being. He is an absolute being. He truly exists. And more than that…

He is an eternal being, or Spirit—without beginning or end.

Our One God has three personas—Father, Son, and Holy Ghost (or Holy Spirit).

God is all powerful and the author of creation. The entire universe was set into existence by the spoken words of God. And that includes every living thing on planet Earth—including you and me. Mankind was created on the sixth day2 and created in the image of God.3

So just what is my point?

Well first, I have a question for you. Who are you?

Based on the above, you might reply that like me, you are a child of God.

And, while that would be a correct answer on one level, it may not be totally correct. You see, far… far… back in our lineage we have a set of grand-parents named Adam and Eve. That’s right. The first man and woman created by God. They knew God intimately. In fact, they physically walked and talked with God on their strolls through the Garden of Eden. They lived in a paradise with no rules—but one. They were instructed by God not to eat the fruit of the tree in the middle of the garden. It was called the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. And God told them that if they did eat of it, they would surely die.

The short version of this story is that Satan, a fallen angel, deceived Eve by telling her if she ate the fruit, she wouldn’t die4. Rather, she would be like God, …knowing good from evil. Eve ate some of the fruit and then convinced Adam to also eat the fruit. And things changed—BIG TIME. Eve and Adam knew they should not go against the only rule God had given them, but they did it anyway, …and that is known as “sin”. Our grandparents, using their freewill intentionally disobeyed God and introduced sin into what had been a perfect environment. And their original sin has infected every man and woman born, or yet to be born, with a sinful nature5. It blocks our communication with God and condemns us to death and eternity in Hell. In fact, sin infected the whole physical planet; and caused God to withdraw to heaven.6

That’s It?

Oh, NO! Time passes. (And God had devised a great—an almost too incredible to believable, plan.) Out of God’s great love for His children, He devised a plan of grace7 that would blot out mankind’s sins for all time; provide for redemption, and restore us to God’s family for eternity. Many prophets (in the old testament) alluded to the plan. Some quite specifically, in retrospect.

Then, in about 5 BC, God implemented His plan. (If you get nothing else out of this post, read and consider the next two paragraphs. GET THIS!)

Out of Gods grace, He sends the Holy spirit to visit His children. The Holy Spirit looks into our hearts, and works to convict us of our sins and our inability to “fix ourselves”. Yes, we are all sinners, and we will be until we die, or are called home. No man or woman is perfect. It is impossible to live on this broken planet without sinning. Big sins, little sins, or both. (As we tend to think of them. Actually, to God there is no distinction. Sin is sin.) And, while God makes no distinction of sins, there is a distinction of sinners: Forgiven and Unforgiven.

None of us know the exact time of our earthly death. And in the meantime, the Holy Spirit is whispering, sometimes shouting.8 Trying to get our attention, fighting our freewill, convicting us to believe that God is God. That He sent His Son, Jesus, to earth to be born of a virgin; to live a perfect life performing miracles and healing the wounds and hearts of broken people; and then to be sacrificed on a Roman cross—carrying the sins of every person who has, and ever will, repent of their sins, from a contrite heart, and ask for forgiveness while declaring Jesus as their Lord and savior. And then He arose from his grave three days later, thus fulfilling prophecies from both the old and new testaments; not only proving His Deity, but, also giving us the promise of a new (eternal) life as a Christian, following his plan for our unique gifts. And, it is free!

And, I actually have three points to make…

First: God offers us his plan at no cost. All of this, …for only believing and asking, …bestowed through the grace of God’s great love for His creation, …YOU and ME. But remember, God is not “only” a God of Love and Grace. He is also a “Just” God. He will never force you to do anything against your will. Your eternal destination is 100 percent your choice. And choosing not to make a decision, or saying “not yet” is the same as saying, “No.” God does not want to send anyone to hell.9 In fact He grieves over every lost soul that is sent there. Never-the-less, He will send you where you choose, and you MUST choose before you die.

My second point is: While it is a given that every one on earth is a sinner; there are those of us who have asked for, and received, salvation, redemption and restoration to God’s family. We are living new lives patterned after Christ’s example, and have a personal relationship with Him that assures we will spend eternity in Heaven with our triune God.

My Third point is: If you recognize that you are a sinner, and know that you cannot save yourself, the Holy Spirit is talking to you and leading you to take action and become a Christian by repenting (confessing) your sins to Jesus and asking his forgiveness. Tell Jesus that you want to become a follower (which is what a Christian is—a follower of Christ). Tell Jesus you love Him and are ready to begin the new life He has planned for you.

It is truly that simple. Yet, for many it is too difficult.

When you do establish this relationship something truly incredible will happen. The Holy Spirit will move into your heart to act as your guide and interpreter. Really! And never forget this scripture:

And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. [Romans 8:27-28. NLT]

My Prayer:

Yaweh (I AM),

Scientists tell us the universe was formed 13.8 billion years ago, when a tiny singularity (or vacuum fluctuation) containing (what we now call) the universe, and energy (known as a scalar field) suddenly appeared in space—out of nothing at all. The energy field in this singularity acted as “antigravity” inflating the bubble instantaneously to the size of a grapefruit. By this point the antigravity was converted to heat energy which kept expanding (at a more sedate speed) due to the push of the inflation. This is now referred to as the “Big Bang”.

I prefer the description of creation presented in the Bible. “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” [Genesis 1:1] And I see no conflict with the science. Now we know where the singularity came from and what triggered it—while providing the design, rules, matter and energy for the creation. Thank you, God!

Scientists tell us the earth is 4.5 billion years old. And mankind may be 50,000 years old. The Bible tells us you created Adam and Eve; but again, doesn’t tell us when. I do believe you created them. And would, if for no other reason than they are the most unique part of all creation. You created them in your image, and you gave them life!

Neither do we know when Satan seduced Eve into doing what she knew to be wrong—and, the same for Adam. Nor, do we know exactly how long it was before you chose Moses to lead your people out of enslavement in Egypt. But we do know the first book of the Torah (also the first book of the Christian Bible) was written about 1450 BC, by Moses.

Your Words, recorded in the 66 books of the Bible over that next millennium and a half, give me all the knowledge and instruction I need to know about you, the One True God. I know you love your entire creation—most especially, mankind.

40 Years ago, you chose me a second time; when I was as undeserving as I could ever be. You picked me up, dusted me off and led me into a new life. The path you set me on led to the perfect wife and life partner. Together, we have been blessed beyond measure. And now, we look forward to what you still have in store for us as we move forward loving God, following Jesus, and striving to love others as we love ourselves.

I know I am not perfect in my walk; never-the-less, your love, grace, and guidance, endure. I thank you, and praise you for your never ending love.

Your loving servant,


1. Although some pronounce YHVH as “Jehovah” or “Yaweh,” scholars really don’t know the proper pronunciation because the ancient Hebrew alphabet had no vowels. For pronunciation purposes due to the absence of vowels in the Tetragrammaton, Bible scholars have chosen to spell it either Yaweh, or sometimes, Yahweh.

2.There is much debate about the Creation of the universe. Some say in a great explosion of a singularity formed the universe.. Some say God started the process and the universe evolved over billions of years. Still others say; six days. And while almost all religions have a story of the creation, only the Bible postulates that one supreme God created the earth out of his great love; and gave mankind a special place in it. How long it took is unknown. The Bible does not say how long it took. Some take the term “day” to be a literal 24 day period. Others say the word “day” represents an indefinite period of time (even millions or billions of years).

3. What does it mean when the bible says that man was created in God’s image? Obviously, this is another occasion when God was not being totally literal. God is a Spirit. God can assume the form of man. What God did was create men and women as unique beings capable of communicating with him. No other part of creation can claim that incredible capability.

4. Satan was doing what he does best, …lying. And, using God’s children as a tool to attack God.

5. Except for Jesus Christ.

6. God is Holy and cannot abide the presence of sin.

7. Grace: unmerited favor. i.e. We didn’t earn it, nor do we deserve it. It is free for believing and asking from a broken and contrite heart. God also gave mankind freewill and the ability to reflect his (God’s) character in our love, patience, forgiveness, kindness, and faithfulness.

8. You will not lose your freewill. God loves His creation and does not want robots who have no choice but to obey. At the same time it means you will never be perfect while on earth.

9. God created hell for Satan and his followers. While I cannot imagine exactly what hell is like, I can tell you that it is a place you DO Not want to be. I know it is totally devoid of God and any good thing. If you think life on earth can be difficult, try to imagine a place where there is no love, no kindness, no charity, no understanding, no truth, no mercy, no help of any kind, no music, no laughter. There will be constant pain and sorrow. And more filth.






Unmerited Mercy…

You’ve probably heard the following statement, “God reaches down to man through His great Love; and, man reaches up to God through religion.” I totally agree with the first half. And must sadly say for many people, I think the second half of the statement is also correct—but, dead wrong. (Pun intended). FLASH! No religion can save you from your sins, …or secure your place in Heaven!

Man has taken something that should be pure and simple—our belief in, trust in, and love for, God (who loved us first); and perverted it through ignorance, arrogance, greed, and pride—then called it, …Religion.

Let’s look at the basics.

1. Through God’s Grace,* Christianity is available to the world.

All people are God’s creation. God intended that all mankind would have a perfect relationship with Him—for eternity. But then, Adam and Eve, with encouragement from Satan used their free-will, and introduced sin into the world. This immediately drove a wedge between mankind and God. And mankind would suffer for thousands of years in sin, and rebellion.

Then God, through His Grace, began a plan that would provide mankind a pathway of hope. The cost to God was all but unthinkable. Never-the-less, God began phase one of the plan. He sent His Son Jesus to earth. Where, over approximately 35 years, Jesus lived a sin-free life and became the only possible blood sacrifice that could cover mankind’s sin and restore our relationship with God. Then, after His death, He arose, proving without a doubt that He was indeed the Son of God and was truthful in His offer of forgiveness for sin, and restoration with God; and the promise of eternal life. The pathway is open!

Oh, did I mention that God’s plan has two distinct parts? Well, it does. And God sending His son to Earth as a sacrifice was a critical part. But the next part is equally critical, …and, it is your part! (Which I will explain soon).

But for the moment, imagine yourself at your worst. You are covered in sin and standing at the foot of a cross. Above you, a stripped and dying man is hanging on that cross by nails hammered through His hands and feet, with a crown of thorns pushed deeply into His head. Blood is flowing freely from those wounds—and from where the skin was ripped off of his back; when he was lashed with a whip embedded with bits of metal and glass. Around you the soldiers are mocking this man while others are hurling insults and cursing Him.

And now, this man turns His eyes on you, and speaks directly to you; “I’m doing this for you—that you might enter into my Father’s presence and live with us forever in Heaven.”

That dear friend, if you are not “saved” is you. And you have now stepped onto the stage to assume your part in God’s great plan.

2. Jesus is the only way to the Father and eternal life.

…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. [Romans 3:23, 24] Notice, everyone has sinned!

For God loved the world so much that he gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. [John 3:16, NLT] Notice God’s plan is open to, “…everyone who believes in Him.”

“…I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” [John 14:6] Jesus was speaking. Redemption comes only through Jesus Christ!

That is exactly how you become saved. I suspect you are now beginning to understand your roll in God’s plan. You have a choice to make. And if you understand that, then the Holy Spirit is calling you to make that choice now. You can say, “No. I’m not interested.” Or, you can say, “Not right now, I’m kind’a interested; but, I’m just not ready to make a decision.” Well you just made that decision. You said, “No.” And hopefully you may have time to decide for Christ. But, there are no guarantees. We do not know our allotted time on Earth.

Or, you can say, “Yes” to Jesus by… praying directly to Him. It’s easy. (Note: Please read this prayer first, and then if you truly want to become a follower of Christ, go back and repeat it.) You can do this silently, or out-loud. Jesus will hear you either way.

Jesus, I believe you are the Son of God; that You died on the cross; and that You arose from the grave three days later. Jesus, I know I cannot live a sinless life through my own efforts. I want to accept Your free gift of salvation, purchased for me by Your blood, shed as You died on the cross. Jesus, I want to repent of my sins; and I desire to follow Your plans for my life. Jesus, I also thank the Holy Spirit for convicting me of my need for God’s Plan of Salvation and Redemption. Thank you for loving me and giving me a new life.

That was a, Yes! And, if you prayed it, there is a celebration going on in Heaven, right now.

Through God’s mercy we will receive forgiveness for our sins (Acts 10:43); the Holy Spirit will come to live within us (see John 16:7-15); and our faith is established. Thus begins our relationship, our walk, with God.

3. First I assure you, If you prayed the above prayer from your heart—in other words, you really meant ityou are a Christian and the Holy Spirit has entered your heart! It would be VERY difficult to lose your Christianity/Salvation because God is always with you; so don’t worry about that.

Jesus tells us that when the Holy Spirit enters our hearts, He will be our advocate, and our counselor. (The Holy Spirit performs other functions, but these two titles are key, at least to me). As my Advocate, the Holy Spirit interprets my prayers and petitions to God. As my Counselor, He interprets scripture and leads me into all truth. Wow! Now those are two things I really need when struggling to live a Christian life in modern American society. And note, all this is just between us, and our triune God – Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Becoming a Christian doesn’t make you perfect. You will be perfected through Death, when you receive your new body and enter into Heaven. In the meantime you are forgiven and moving towards perfection. But that is not a “get out of jail free card.” You will still sin. Yes, God knows your sin, and He has already forgiven you; never-the-less, ask for forgiveness. And ask God to increase your faith and strength to abolish that particular sin from your life. Why? Because your sins have consequences. Consequences you will have to deal with. God can help you through the stress and strain, but He will not remove those consequences. Learn to think of them as “lessons.”

He returns or calls you home, continue your walk with Christ. Your faith will grow, your love for others will grow; and in general, your walk will get stronger. Some temptations will disappear, others will grow weaker. Some will not. (Satan does not give up easily, and he knows your weaknesses.) But God is ever near, and He will not allow you to fall as long as your faith endures.

And remember, …you’ve just got started in a new life. And, God has only good plans for you. What do you think God could accomplish through your work with Him as your guide?

Abba Father,

…You know I haven’t posted in more than a month. And you know I started this post headed in a very different direction; But somehow it got hi-jacked. And, I know better than to resist, so this is our outcome.

It is now the middle of the Christmas season. And while it should be ALL about You, we tend to get caught up in parties and finding just the right gift for our friends and family members. We have to get cards out. School programs to attend. And we can’t forget visiting relatives, travel, and that all important big feast. We often spend way more than we should—and then worry about the bills. Forgive us, Lord. That is no way to celebrate Your birth.

Draw us back to you Lord. Show us the way to honor You by giving You the glory during this miraculous time. Show us that we can have fun while expressing our love for one another, and You. Having a feast is fine. Visiting those we have not seen for a long time can be wonderful. Just help us to remember that You are truly the reason and the focus of our celebration. Help us to not get carried away with “our” plans; but to constantly include You in this new life You have given us. Actually, our best gift, …EVER!

Lord, how I need you, and love you…


* I think every language has many individual words that have multiple meanings. And English is certainly one of them. (Check out “fast” for example!) And so, different characteristics and qualities of God often have multiple definitions and nuances. The word “grace” is no exception. For this post I am speaking of God’s Grace as: …”unmerited mercy or favor.” God’s Grace far surpasses His kindness and provision for us. Think of his infinite compassion and mercy; that he sent His Son to Earth, to the Cross, and to Hell, …for sinners, …like us. And in return? He asks only that we believe, and trust in Him. The reward will certainly be worth it.

Who’s Got Your Back?

…Who can you really trust?

When we became Christians we began a new life. A life of freedom; but also, a life that Christ warned us would have difficulties and struggles.

Why should that be? One reason. Accepting Christ as our Lord and Savior, also restored us as sons and daughters of God; thus making us citizens of God’s Kingdom. And while all that is true, the problem is, …we are still living on planet Earth!

We were not instantly perfected (made sin-free and perfect). Our sins were forgiven and we began a relationship—a process, if you will—with Jesus that will prepare us, over time, for our move to Heaven.

In the meantime, we gradually learn more about God’s Kingdom; and as we do we become more of an alien on earth. We grow more aware that earthly lifestyles and cultures are truly broken, corrupt and sinful. Yet, this is the culture in which we “swim”, and will swim, until we are called to our true home.

The unfortunate truth is that it is simply not possible to live a sin free, trouble-free life on earth! But, God did not leave us without resources; and the Bible is our number one resource. I consider the following scriptures to be four of the most crucial scriptures for developing our trust in God.

*Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. [Proverbs 3:5, NLT]

And that scripture can be backed up with three more…

Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.” [1Peter 5:7]

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” [Jeremiah 29:11]

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them.” [Romans 8:28]

Now, speaking from my personal experience, I can tell you it is easy to say, “I trust in God.” It is not always so easy to do. I want to trust God. And, I am getting better at it. But, it hasn’t been simple or easy.

More than once, I’ve been told… “Well, you either trust God, or you don’t.” Excuse me; but… where in the bible are you seeing that? It simply is not that black and white. Although I think Satan would like for us to believe it. After all it’s one of those things that does have a kernel of truth. Satan will jump on it in order to lead you into questioning whether or not you are truly a child of God. Let me give you an example of how this works from my own life.

For me, some things aren’t at all hard to turn-over to God. I can look at something, realize it beyond my capacities, ask God to handle it, and go on my way. Then, when I see that God has taken care of something for me, or paved the way for the two of us to move forward together, I give him the glory. (O.K. Being honest, I have to admit I am sometimes a little slow in giving that glory when I don’t immediately see (or recognize) what God has done. But when I do, I,take care of the oversight right there and then.

Then there are other things I pray about, and tell God I’m giving them to him. And I do, …for a while. Then, I start thinking about it. That leads to worry. (In my case it often involves long-term financial issues). Next, I’m waking-up in the middle of the night and I can’t get back to sleep. Satan is working me over. I’ve become a basket case of worry and fear. I’m not solving a single thing. I close-up, lose patience with people; and in general, become something of a jerk. And yes, I’m setting a very poor example of a Christian life.

Now, let me clear up something. Is my worry a sin? Yes! Does the fact that I’m worrying and not trusting God mean I’ve somehow canceled my status as a Christian? NO! I’m, still saved. Is Jesus happy about my situation? No. BUT, He is with me and ready to pick-me up from where I’ve fallen; brush-off the dirt of this world (and Satan); put an arm around me, and take the reins firmly in hand. All I need do after calling on Him is relinquish control and have faith that I will see the optimal outcome to my problem.

So, let’s go back to those scriptures and see if we can’t find some help in them. The first scripture tells us, “do not depend on your own understanding.” In other words our understanding is flawed. For example, God can see into the future, …I can’t. And, my understanding of what’s really happening in the present, isn’t all that great, either. We need to pray for Kingdom eyes to see with, Kingdom ears to hear with, and Kingdom thought processes..

The second verse says, “…for He cares about you.” Folks, that is saying a lot. God, the Creator of the Universe… Cares. For. Us! And, by the way, it’s not just Christians he cares for. He cares for everyone! But for those who believe in, and love Him, …we get relationship. We need to take every advantage of it. What power that gives us!

The third scripture tells us that God has, “…plans for our good and not for our harm.” His plans are, “…to give us a bright future and a hope.” Is there any doubt in your mind about who has the BEST plans; God, or us? While we’re taking advantage of that relationship we have with God, we need to make sure that through our arrogance or simple lack of faith, we’re not leaving anything on the table.

The fourth verse tells us that our screw-ups or even Satan’s plans for our destruction, can be worked, by God, to the advantage of those who love him and are following his plans. This does not mean that God will always do what we want. God can say, “Yes.” God can also say, “Not yet;” or even, “No.” Happily, I have noticed that frequently, “No,” means, “I have a better plan.” And, that makes this a verse of re-assurance, one we should always carry with us.

And finally, if these scriptures aren’t enough for you, just stop. Clear your mind. Now, think about what God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit have already done for you. God’s plan, Jesus’ sacrifice, the Holy Spirit intervening for you. If that doesn’t boost your faith and trust—check your pulse. I hope it’s not too late.

Abba, (Father),

In 1 Corinthians 13:11, Paul says, “When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.” I suspect that in some ways I still behave like a child (or worse yet, a teenager). This perfecting process takes constant prayer, lessons, and effort. And sometimes, I feel like I’m taking one step forward and two back—yet you are always with me. Thank you!

Lord, I also want to thank you for the lesson you have taught me about worry, and how to stop it in its tracks. That has been an immense help to me. Thank you for reminding me that “worry” and “fear” are Satan’s tools—not yours. Remembering that lesson has helped me more times than I’d care to count. And every time you have been right there, for me.

Lord, I know who has my back, and who I can always trust! Amen.

Avery Goodday

* Scripture quotations marked [NLT] are taken from the New Living Translation—Life Application Study Bible, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2007. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Observations on 9/11/16


The radio woke me up this morning with commentators talking about this being the 15th-anniversary of the terrorist attacks against the United States. They reviewed both the attack(s) in New York and Washington, DC. Talking about the terrorists hijacking three airplanes and flying two of them into the twin towers and one into the Pentagon. And I’m thinking, wait a minute! Their were four aircraft hijacked that morning. What about United Flight 93?

I listened for 30-minutes; then got up and went online. I thought I’d surely find current stories that mentioned the 4th airplane. Nope. Nada. Found lot’s of coverage about the museum and memorial in New York City. But in those stories nothing was mentioned about Flight 93. What a travesty of justice.

Flight 93 was on it’s way from Newark to San Francisco. It had 44 people aboard. Seven crew, 33-passengers, four-terrorists. The plane was hijacked and turned back on a course for Washington DC. It is believed the target was either the Capital Building or the White House. Passengers and crew used phones to communicate with family members. They learned the Twin Towers and Pentagon had already been attacked. They spread the word through-out the cabin, took a vote, and decided to re-take control of the airplane—or die trying.

At 10:03, on 9/11/2001, United Flight 93—in a high speed dive—struck the ground in Somerset County, Eastern Pennsylvania. There were no survivors. There was, however, ample evidence that the passengers and crew had regained control of the cabin and were about to (or had just) breached the cockpit, thus forcing the hijackers to abort their mission. How many lives they saved is not known. How much terrorist propaganda was averted can only be imagined.

To all the family and friends of the brave crew members and passengers of United Flight 93, my heart goes out to you. And, I will never forget that this country owes them a great debt, indeed. They will be remembered, as true patriots, and heroes—who gave their all, that others might live.


The events of 9/11/2001 are difficult to think about. The total number of fatalities is given as 2,996. The number injured? I doubt anyone really knows that number. And, as a Christian I know that day has had tremendous impact on people’s belief. It shows us the depth of evil that can overtake and fill the hearts of men. It demonstrates just how quickly and without warning innocent lives can be snuffed-out. It begs the questions, were was God, and what was God trying to tell us.

I wish I knew for certain; but… I don’t. I am certain God was present. He was on all four of the aircraft. He was in the Twin-Towers and the World Trade Center. He was in the Pentagon. I know that every single Christian who died in that attack is now with Jesus.

I also know that God is God. He makes the “rules.” And, it all comes down to this.

God is holy and perfect. He cannot abide sin. Everyone on planet earth is a sinner—you, me… everyone. We will die. If you die in sin, you will go directly to Hell, where you will spend eternity in agony. If you die in a relationshp with Jesus Christ and your sins forgiven, you will immediately go to Heaven, where you will spend eternity in paradise as a son or daughter of God. (I’ll come back to this in a bit.) In the meantime consider the following.

I’m sure millions of people, all over this great nation came together to pray for the injured, dying, and their families. I’m certain that many people who had never before given it a whole lot of thought, were assessing and considering how shallow, empty and fragile their lives were. And, I would suspect a great number of them, recognizing their sin burden, turned to God. If not immediately, then certainly over time.

Also, by 2001, this nation was already telling God to get his nose out of our business. Drug use was going up. A woman’s right to have her unborn child killed (excuse me) her fetus aborted was in hot debate, and booting God out of our schools was getting more and more traction. That said, remember God is the perfect gentlemen. He will not force himself on anyone—or any nation. Have you considered that God may have been giving us a foretaste of how events might roll-out, …if He pulls-out?

Back to God being God…. No one on earth is perfect (without sin). Sin started when Adam allowed Eve to disobey God, and then, did the same thing himself. (Sin is knowing what is wrong; but, doing it anyway). So Adam committed the original sin which brought sin upon all of mankind for all time. This grieved God, for man was God’s favorite creation. So, over a long period time, God demonstrated (to man) that man cannot live a perfect life by his own merit and effort.

Then God did the best thing, ever! He gave mankind a Savior. He sent His only Son to earth to live a perfect life and become the perfect sacrifice for our sins. Jesus became our Savior when He died on the cross taking the sins of all believers, for all time, with Him to Hell. He was placed in a tomb with a stone closure. Three days later He walked out of his tomb as He had said He would. (Thus we can be assured that He was the son of God). He spent the next 40 days teaching and showing the scars from the nails that had been driven through his hands and feet. He then, in the presence of two of His disciples ascended into Heaven! (Thus we know He lives today and assures believers of our eternal life in Heaven).

God and Jesus are very specific about the following: There is only one way into Heaven and it is through Jesus Christ. And, while there is only one way, that way is open to anyone and everyone who truly chooses to believe in Jesus as God’s only son, and asks Jesus to forgive his sins forever and restore his relationship with God.

So, no matter who you are, no matter how big a burden of sin you have brought upon yourself, if God is speaking to you, and you know you must do it, you can start your relationship with God/Jesus right now. Here is a simple prayer. I recommend you read it first, just to see what you will be saying to Jesus. Then, if you want to start a new life in Jesus—read it as a prayer to your new best friend.

Jesus, you know that I have sinned. I know I can’t help sinning even when I am trying my hardest to live a good life. Jesus, you also know my heart, and that I believe you died for my sins on that cross so long ago. Please, Jesus, take my sins and restore my relationship in your family. Jesus, I want to make you Lord of my life by living the life you have planned for me. I’ll need your help. Thank you for hearing my prayer. Amen

What now? If you just made that prayer, you probably have a lot of questions. And, I have written a lot of Blogs that could help you. The one I think you should start with is: You Aren’t Perfect, posted: 03/18/16. Just keep scrolling down and you’ll find it. Another you may find interesting is: Where We Stand, posted: 04/01/16.

Avery Goodday

No Other Way

Ask me what it means to be a Christian and I will tell you that first you need to understand what I believe. I believe God, who created the Universe and everything in it, loves me and wants to have a relationship with me.

I believe Sin is knowing wrong from right; but, doing wrong anyway. This is what our ancient ancestors, Adam and Eve did. By disobeying God and following Satan’s lies, they brought sin to mankind and earth. Sin has two major impacts on mankind. It blocks our relationship with God, and it ultimately leads to eternal death.

I know that out of God’s love for mankind, He made a way whereby we (individually) can have our sins blotted out as if they never existed, and we can be restored to God’s family as sons and daughters. That way is through belief in God’s only Son Jesus. He was sent to earth to be the only possible sacrifice for the sins of mankind. After living a blameless life he was falsely accused, beaten, flogged and nailed to a cross where He suffered and died for our sins. He was taken from the cross and sealed in a tomb which He walked out of, three days later. His death was the sacrifice for our sins, His resurrection was proof of His deity as God’s Son—and, our guarantee of eternal life.

So, back to the original question of, what does it mean to be a Christian? It means I do not have to a live life that is meaningless and full of sin, with nothing to look forward to but death. It means a new life of love, hope, peace, joy, and fulfilling work. A meaningful life on earth that will seamlessly transition to an eternal life, in an eternal body, when I am called to Heaven—my true home.

It means I trust in Christ and follow Him as my Lord.

Now, all of that was in preparation for this:

26Just as the body without breath is dead, so faith is also dead without good works. [James 2:26. NLT]

This verse has created a lot of controversy and dissension over the years. Which is more important for a Christian: belief or works? It is amazing to me how people can argue and bicker over moot points.

In the New Testament there is no separation between belief and obedience. They are linked as one because if you truly believe, …you will truly follow. And, I submit that if you are following Christ, you are obeying Christ, and doing the work Christ has for you.

God does His part, and we must do ours. I consider my wife a gift from God. Do I ever have to work at my marriage? Yes! Do I enjoy the work? Not always—but, I still do it. Is it worth it? Without a doubt!

Perhaps, you love to play the piano. God gifted you with a love for music; and, a talent for playing the piano. Did you still have to work at piano lessons? I’m betting the answer is, “yes”. Was it 100% fun? I’m guessing, …”no”! Lots of practice? “Oh yeah”. Worth it? “Absolutely”.

The point I hope I’ve made here is that salvation and “works” go hand in hand—with salvation leading the way. Because you believe, you follow. Belief (trust/faith) gets us into God’s Kingdom. Obedience (following/working) is the evidence of your citizenship in God’s Kingdom.

There is an old hymn, the lyrics were written by John H. Sammis in 1887. The chorus goes, “…Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.”

The concept was originally given to us about 2,000 years ago. Then about 130± years ago, I think Mr. Sammis clarified it quite well! Can we now stop arguing about it?


We have so much to be thankful for. We need only to look at nature, to praise you for longer than we’ll be here to appreciate it. Add what you have done for us and stand ready to do for us and… well, let’s just say that there will be plenty to keep us busy in eternity.

Yet we can find nits to question and argue over. And, I’m as guilty as any. Father please help me, and teach me to concentrate on Kingdom values. To understand that what you want for me is simply to trust you and follow your plan for my life. It’s not about… “what I should do for you—as pay back for all that you’ve done for me.” When I really think about it, I know it is ludicrous. And I see you shaking your head and saying, “Can’t we just keep it simple. After all, “there’s no other way!”

Thank you, Abba.

Avery Goodday